Published in Woman and Home November 2006 When I tell people Annie and I have been together for decades, I’m not the only one who looks impressed - she does too. Although we’re both therapists with our heads full of coping strategies, we both remember the dodgy moments...

The Times – October 2nd 2006 ‘Survivor guilt’ is a normal human response to situations where we escape death by luck or by a miracle. For those male students ‘spared’ by the Pennsylvania killer for reasons that we may never understand in some appalling parody of a concentration camp...